8. That you feel like … you settled for him
Though perhaps you would never say it to your husband or partner, you could be tempted to say it in the heat of battle.
Don’t. Even if it’s not true, it will ultimately cause your relationship to fall apart. And if it’s true, you might want to consider meeting someone you truly like. But you don’t have to share this damaging knowledge right now. You’re superior than that!
9. About his flaws that he can’t change
Your boyfriend may have habits or behaviors that irritate you but that he genuinely cannot or does not know how to change. He can have an odd voice or use his hands to speak. Those are little items that ought to be kept out of his reach.
You don’t want to insult him or hurt his feelings when you really don’t need to, which is why you want to keep it a secret. If you genuinely want to be with someone, you should put up with and overlook the annoying small things he does or says.
10. That you’re crushing on one of his friends
Boyfriends appreciate it when you get along with their pals because it demonstrates your want to fit in and be a male. While being close to his buddies is nice, you should never become too close.
You should keep your affections for his pals to yourself if you do find yourself falling for them. If your guy had a crush on one of your pals, you wouldn’t want to know about it. The fact that you care so much about him will ensure that, even if it’s only a crush, it will pass. Red flags shouldn’t be raised if they aren’t necessary.
11. What you do with your own personal cash
You should be allowed to spend your money as you choose since you worked hard to get it. You are not required to share with your lover every single purchase you make. If he insists on hearing it from you, be mindful that he may be experiencing control difficulties.
You should thus feel free to spend your money on items that bring you joy. You’ve worked hard and deserve a reward, so head to your favorite store and get some bath bombs or make a visit at your favorite upscale bakery.
The Takeaway
Even the most progressive and tolerant men nonetheless highly value their masculinity. It would be preferable if you didn’t bruise their egos.
The foundation of any successful relationship is communication, but you must be selective in the information you choose to share with your guy.
Try not to say anything that will enrage him. Use polite, appropriate communication. And when you have finished clearing it all out, a romantic date night wouldn’t be a terrible idea.
