6 Reasons Why “Forgive And Forget” Is Not Always The Best Thing To Do

6 Reasons Why "Forgive And Forget" Is Not Always The Best Thing To Do

2. It is difficult to forget.

Why would you encourage a victim to forget something that you know you cannot consciously forget? The human brain only distorts a small portion of our painful events over time. You cannot expect anybody to gain from counsel which is impossible to follow.

3. It appears as though you don’t care.

Victims hear their loved ones say, “Enough already, just let it go,” when they should be saying, “Forgive and forget.”

They believe that you don’t want to hear more from them and that you want them to act as if nothing had happened, in other words. This will eventually cause them to withdraw because they feel burdened and misunderstood.

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