8. Explain it in other words.
Never say things like, “You’re lousy in bed,” “You’re awful at this,” or anything else that employs a pejorative. Inform him that you’re struggling to have an orgasm and that you’d like their assistance.
At this point, he will recognize that he is responsible and immediately start crying or being angry. Or, if he’s a truly chill man, he might just agree and try out a few new things.
9. Never fake it.
We all know there are publications on the internet about simulating an orgasm, but those are aimed exclusively at those who want to avoid having sex. You should NEVER EVER EVER FAKE IT while you are in a relationship.
You made him believe he was better than he actually was, which is why you’re with a bad sleeper.
Put aside his ego! Just as significant as your emotional connection is your sexual life. If you can’t say it aloud, tell him the truth with your body.
10. Shake things up.
Sometimes, particularly when you enter a long-term emotional or sexual relationship, sex can develop into more of a routine or a chore, which ultimately results in the sex becoming dull, predictable, and uninteresting.
Try changing things up in the bedroom by adopting new positions, doing kinkier things, or bringing in a new partner. This will instantly improve that awful sex. Go for it if it sounds enjoyable and sensual.
11. Be at the same level.
Sometimes the issue might not be that your man is necessarily bad in bed but just that you guys aren’t vibing sexually on a similar level — this is more so prevalent in newer couples.
Chances are he might even think that you’re the one that sucks in bed. Luckily all that really needs to be done is communicate with your sex partner so that they can better understand where you’re coming from.
12. You will occasionally need to cut your losses.
If a man appears to be exactly your type on paper but has a terrible sexual history, it can be very difficult. If you’ve only recently met him, it will be much simpler to simply tell him that you don’t think you two are compatible on a sexual level.
You shouldn’t give up what may be a really wonderful relationship over terrible sex, especially if you haven’t tried to make up for it with your spouse. Sexual chemistry and a joyful sex life are crucial for a relationship.
