What is a soulmate?
You see that individual as more than simply a romantic interest. He is your best friend, your support system, your shoulder to cry on, your “partner in crime,” or as Barry White once said, “You are my first, my last, and my everything!”
Had you ever met someone and instantly knew that they were the one you have been waiting for your entire life? That individual completes you in some way? Regardless, stick with me, and I’ll give you some specific, scientific indications that this person is your soul match.
THE TIMING IS SPOT ON
Your solumate may have been around for a while, but it wasn’t meant for you to meet until that particular time. Or perhaps you haven’t yet met him? Perhaps he lives next door and you haven’t seen him yet. Everything occurs for a purpose. What if you met him when you were already seeing someone else or if the timing wasn’t right? In order to meet him, you must be prepared; it cannot just happen. Don’t push it; let fate handle that. You must exercise patience.
COMMUNICATION
When I use the word “communication,” I don’t only mean verbal exchanges. I also mean nonverbal communication. This is even more crucial. You’ve discovered your soul mate if you can infer what your spouse is thinking simply by the expression on his face. You’ll know you’re headed in the correct direction once you are successful at interpreting his body language. Knowing what your soulmate is thinking or feeling without having to exchange words is the whole goal of finding a soulmate.
ENCOURAGEMENT
When you see that he will always be at your side, you’ve struck gold. When you observe that he follows your decisions even when he disagrees with them. However, he makes it clear that he would always stand by your side. He will stand with you even if you make a mistake. He will take you up if you fall. If he is there for you, you must feel as though you can conquer the world.
LIFE NOT WORTH LIVING
He is the one if they truly believe they cannot survive without you. I don’t mean this in the crazy sense of following you around and preventing you from breathing. I mean in the sense that they are unable to picture a situation in which you two are apart. He loves you and has made the decision that you will be together “till death do you part.”
INTELECTUAL COMPATIBILITY
This is a challenging one. Never let yourself feel superior to or inferior to your mate. You must be equal and compatible. This calls for intellectual competition between you two as well. You must have a topic to discuss. You must challenge one another, then put in a lot of effort to meet those challenges. In this manner, you will never become tired and your relationship will always have its spark.
CHEMISTRY
You must possess the unique quality you experience when you first meet someone who is perfect for you. You must feel the butterflies in your stomach and the electrifying attraction. You must have the impression that you have seen and experienced everything, and that it is now time to settle down and make the most of your remaining time with that particular someone. And you won’t ever regret doing it. You won’t ever regret not having lived a little bit longer before committing to him.
SHARE GOALS AND AMBITION
If not the same hobbies as you, then comparable ones, your soul mate will share. He’ll have the same aspirations as you have. Even while he doesn’t need to start out as ambitious as you are or vice versa, he will pick it up in the course of your future life together. Because either you or he will have an impact over the other.
I MISSED YOU AGAIN
This is awesome. When soulmates first meet and get to know one another, it’s not uncommon for them to realize that they might have met several times before they finally did, that they knew the same people, or that they were at the same events or parties but somehow missed one another.
YOU ARE BEST FRIENDS
It was only a click. Your closest buddy is him. Together, you will experience both laughter and tears. You’ll argue because you’re trying so hard to keep this relationship going even if you know it’s not meant to be. And once the fighting is over, you two will work things out and grow even more in love.
TWO OF YOU MAKE A WHOLE
You have felt as though something is missing throughout your whole life up to this point. You lacked something. However, now that you’ve met him, you’re in need of nothing else. Everything you desire is at your disposal. It’s similar to when one piece of a jigsaw you’re trying to put together is missing. You won’t be content or happy until you locate that one piece. You’ll be bothered because you’re aware that there’s still one piece out there that has to be located. And once you do, life appears to make a lot more sense.
YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’VE ALREADY MET
You think you are well informed about one another. You had the impression that you were solemates in a previous life, where you both got old together and joyfully passed away. You notice that his movements, his gestures, his kissing motion, and his grin are all familiar to you. Like something you’ve seen someplace else. Perhaps you did. You may have already lived one life before meeting this person.
These can all help you determine whether this person is your soulmate. The thing you feel within is the most significant, though. Sometimes you simply know and no indications are needed!