Nowadays, when you’re dating, texting is generally your primary method of communication—at least initially—with a new guy. When your crush is blowing up your phone, this may be quite helpful. Additionally, it might be awful to wait for that post-first date communication that never arrives. The fact is that he doesn’t like you if he isn’t messaging you.
1. Every guy that you’ve dated has texted first.
You’ll see that this is true if you go down memory lane for texts. Your ex-boyfriends contacted you to set up dates or to say hello. Even your nearly lovers were texting machines and occasionally inquired about your whereabouts.
2. It proves that he’s not thinking about you.
Here’s a straightforward rule: a guy thinks about you when he likes you. He texts you when he is thinking about you. It’s time to accept that you’re not on his mind if that’s simply not occurring. That shouldn’t make you feel awful. He is the focus of the situation, not you. Just as you don’t like every guy you go out with, not everyone is going to like you.
3. He should come up with random reasons to get in touch.
Pizza was it that he had for lunch? Before a crucial business meeting, did you overindulge in coffee and get nervous and shaky? Is he attempting to amuse you? A guy texts you for the most bizarre reasons when he likes you. Those messages ought to be coming to you, and they ought to make you smile since they show that he’s interested.
4. He doesn’t want to move things forward.
He will make sure you are aware of his feelings for you if he does. He won’t want you to date another person while ignoring him. Sincerely, that’s what you want to hope for—that he won’t be able to forget about you. Why would he want to wait for you to take action instead of taking action himself? What would be the purpose of that?
5. You can’t be the one doing all the work.
Really, are you the only one who can make this new relationship work? Whether you’re saying hello after a few days of quiet or asking him if he wants to get out again, do you want to text first every time? Actually, no.
6. You don’t want to like someone more than they like you.
You have probably experienced this unfortunate circumstance before, and you are aware of how awful it is. You question your every move, wondering if you said or did something improperly, every minute of every day. That’s not how one should live. You want someone who feels the same way about you as you feel about them.
7. He’s not the only guy in the world.
It’s tempting to want to stay dating someone while you’re single AF because it’s taken you this long to find someone nice. Even if he isn’t texting you and things aren’t great, you reason that it wouldn’t make sense to walk away from someone you like. You need to stop thinking like this immediately. In the globe, he is not the only man. You can unquestionably wait for a guy to text you.
8. He’s afraid to tell you the truth.
You could believe that you should keep contacting this guy since he would let you know if he didn’t like you. That is not true. He’s probably afraid to admit that he doesn’t think romantically of you. He should be honest and man up, of course, but he could be too young for that.
9. This isn’t going to end well.
You cannot make someone like you or fall in love with you. Life would be so much easier if you could, and you would most likely be married by now. This won’t work out well if he isn’t messaging you. You’ll either push him to tell you that nothing will happen and that rejection will hurt, or you’ll text him so frequently that he won’t be really polite. You do not want any of these things to occur.
10. There are no excuses.
You may make up all the stories you want, but none of them will come true. No, it’s not because he likes you so much that he ignores you. No, he’s not merely overworked or busy. He doesn’t despise texting, either. If he likes you, you’re going to be aware of it because he won’t stop messaging you.