What is a soulmate?
You see that individual as more than simply a romantic interest. He is your best friend, your support system, your shoulder to cry on, your “partner in crime,” or as Barry White once said, “You are my first, my last, and my everything!”
Had you ever met someone and instantly knew that they were the one you have been waiting for your entire life? That individual completes you in some way? Regardless, stick with me, and I’ll give you some specific, scientific indications that this person is your soul match.
THE TIMING IS SPOT ON
Your solumate may have been around for a while, but it wasn’t meant for you to meet until that particular time. Or perhaps you haven’t yet met him? Perhaps he lives next door and you haven’t seen him yet. Everything occurs for a purpose. What if you met him when you were already seeing someone else or if the timing wasn’t right? In order to meet him, you must be prepared; it cannot just happen. Don’t push it; let fate handle that. You must exercise patience.
COMMUNICATION
When I use the word “communication,” I don’t only mean verbal exchanges. I also mean nonverbal communication. This is even more crucial. You’ve discovered your soul mate if you can infer what your spouse is thinking simply by the expression on his face. You’ll know you’re headed in the correct direction once you are successful at interpreting his body language. Knowing what your soulmate is thinking or feeling without having to exchange words is the whole goal of finding a soulmate.
ENCOURAGEMENT
When you see that he will always be at your side, you’ve struck gold. When you observe that he follows your decisions even when he disagrees with them. However, he makes it clear that he would always stand by your side. He will stand with you even if you make a mistake. He will take you up if you fall. If he is there for you, you must feel as though you can conquer the world.
LIFE NOT WORTH LIVING
He is the one if they truly believe they cannot survive without you. I don’t mean this in the crazy sense of following you around and preventing you from breathing. I mean in the sense that they are unable to picture a situation in which you two are apart. He loves you and has made the decision that you will be together “till death do you part.”
INTELECTUAL COMPATIBILITY
This is a challenging one. Never let yourself feel superior to or inferior to your mate. You must be equal and compatible. This calls for intellectual competition between you two as well. You must have a topic to discuss. You must challenge one another, then put in a lot of effort to meet those challenges. In this manner, you will never become tired and your relationship will always have its spark.
