4 – HE’S NOT AFFECTIONATE
Most partnerships depend heavily on affection. Despite the fact that various couples’ levels of warmth vary, they almost always entail more than none at all. Because a lack of affection frequently indicates a lack of interest, the man in your life may be with you for purposes other than solely romantic ones. Observe the following warning signs.
- YOU DON’T GO ON DATES
Your boyfriend never asks you out on dates for whatever reason. He frequently shows little interest in the one you offer. When you do see one another, it’s never special or romantic. Although he could just be losing interest, it seems like he’s lacking a romance chip.
- YOU DON’T FEEL SPECIAL
He treats you no better than he treats anybody else. He frequently makes you feel like just another roommate or acquaintance. He also doesn’t appear to be interested in altering that.
- NO PHYSICAL AFFECTION
You are not being held by him. He is unwilling to embrace or snuggle. If at all, you seldom ever give a kiss that extends beyond the cheek.
A man who doesn’t want to show physical interest in you typically has no interest in you at all.
- TOO MUCH PHYSICAL AFFECTION
Overindulging in physical affection could seem like it would lead to optimistic thinking, but heed the warning!
It’s possible that a man who can’t stop touching you is only using you for closeness or as a trophy to wear on his arm and doesn’t exhibit any other indicators of interest in you. Therefore, it’s a warning sign if he is obsessively caressing you but is uninterested in your objectives, feelings, or pursuits.
5 – EVERYTHING IS ON HIS SCHEDULE
Everyone is familiar with what it’s like to have a busy schedule. You’ll discover how to strike a balance in a happy, healthy relationship so that you may enjoy time together without risking the rest of your life. However, your companion completely disregards your schedule and seems to have everything on his timetable.
A man who is exploiting you won’t seek you out until it is really convenient for him to do so. Here are a few instances:
- He ghosts your texts and often doesn’t reply for hours or even days
- When he does reply, it’s generally at extremely strange or late hours and includes wanting closeness with you.
- He turns up to see you when it’s least convenient for you and doesn’t care
- He won’t take you out on any dates, ever, because he’s too busy
6 – YOU’RE NEVER A PRIORITY
Unless they are trapped in their own unavoidable circumstance, a good spouse is there for you when you need them. A man who wants to utilize you wouldn’t put any extra effort into helping you or being there for you. As a result, being in a relationship with someone of this nature may make you feel insignificant and reduce your capacity for optimism.
This man often breaks commitments and cancels plans. He regularly abandons you at the last minute and vanishes when you need him the most. He has a justification for not spending any time with you at all. He will never, ever pick you over anything else if he has to make a decision.
Even though you might be tempted to defend him (or to accept the ones he’s offered), keep in mind that if he truly wanted to spend time with you, he would find a way to make time, even if it was just for a little while.
