#7 You have to keep your mind busy. Your mind wanders while you aren’t doing anything. Your mind will only concentrate on your ex if you believe you are in love with them. Keep your mind engaged by thinking on other things.
As a result, you should avoid taking any time to sit still and reflect. Get a hobby, pick up a book, and watch Jeopardy. Do it, whatever it is.
#8 Keep any memories out of sight. Everything they provided you doesn’t have to be set on fire. Save any images or any recollections you have of them. But store them in a box and hide them away rather than displaying them on your mantel. You’re not required to see them at this time. Perhaps in 10 years, dust it off and read it, but not right now.
#9 No sex with the ex! This is a grave offense. WITH THEM, NO SEX. Keep your hands to yourself and refrain from making any sexual approaches or touching them in a sexual way. You are only injured by this. Devoid of sex, therefore. If you want to get back with them, then just talk to them about it. You shouldn’t try to get into a relationship by sleeping with someone.
#10 But do have sex. Please, yes. You don’t have to go bonkers, but make sure you sometimes indulge in some sex. Call them if you still have their past booty call on your phone. Release some sexual tension if you’re having trouble moving past your ex.
#11 Do things that you want to do. Do what you’ve always wanted to do, such as enroll in a dancing class or catch a ride. The moment is now to take advantage of taking care of oneself. It enables you to let go of your ex and realize that there is a far greater universe for you than there is for them.
#12 Go out. You ought to go. This doesn’t imply that you exchange numbers or have sex. Just go out and meet people, have a few drinks, and unwind. You won’t get better by staying home by yourself and binge-watching a gloomy chick film.
#13 Go back into the dating pool on your own time. Your pals will immediately push you into the dating scene. Even when they make an effort, if you don’t want to, don’t help. Instead of trying to bury your feelings by being forced to go on dates, you need to examine your feelings.
#14 Know that you’ll always love them. You’ll have to acknowledge this reality. There is nothing wrong with the fact that you will always adore your ex. You’ll grow to adore them even if you’re not necessarily in love with them.
#15 There are other people out there for you.
I met so many incredible guys after my ex, even though I still adore him. I am aware that I am still unmarried. However, it is not the issue.
Your ex isn’t the only person out there. Don’t assume that you won’t be able to meet anybody else, therefore. Despite the fact that no two loves are same, they are not all superior to one another.
It’s acceptable to ponder whether it’s natural to still adore your ex.
It’s crucial to get past the relationship and find a loving partner, nevertheless.