13. Prepare to Ask Open-ended Questions
Avoid confronting him with tedious inquiries. Write down a few open-ended questions if you want, such “What has been your motivation for doing so well for the company?” What place do you like going to after work? Who serves as your example? These kind of inquiries encourage conversational flow.
14. Tidy Up your Apartment
Before heading to the event, he may want to stay for a while. If he finds your apartment dirty and smelly, it will hurt your ego and make you more anxious since you will constantly worry what he is thinking of you now that he has seen how unclean it is.
15. Board a Taxi
If he didn’t pick you up, don’t drive yourself to the event if you’re nervous. You’ll feel more at ease before meeting with him if you take a cab or hire a driver to transport you to the location. You may sing along or keep listening to nice music while driving; anything to reduce your nervousness.
16. Remember, they Aren’t Perfect Either
You’ll feel less anxious if you remind yourself that you’re not going to see a flawless human person, but rather someone who isn’t a god. Go to them with the understanding that they aren’t flawless, despite how lovely and well-groomed they may seem. For all we know, they may be experiencing anxiety as well.
17. Wear Simple Makeup
Avoid seeming overdressed. You won’t feel at ease until he sees your position and finds a way to help you calm down when you go crazy with your outfit and cosmetics and he ends up coming there in extremely casual clothing, but you know, not all guys are that sensitive. Come out as neither either basic nor overly sophisticated.
18. How Good Does Your Hair Look
The emphasis on appearance is fundamentally due to the fact that most people evaluate a book by its cover. If you’re meeting someone for the first time, such as on a blind date, your initial impression is very important. You get the self-assurance you need to ace your date thanks to your beauty. Before leaving for home, drive into a salon if you feel the need to make any final touches.